Daily Meditation for April 28, 2025

“Old is when you give up, until then you are spectacular” (anon). The wise person who said this gives us a new perspective on aging. Untold billions are spent trying to stop or camouflage the physical effects of aging. But, if you haven’t given up, you are already spectacular. So, what are the signs that show the kind of giving up that makes you old? Some examples: Charles has given up on his family. He thinks the kids are lazy good-for-nothings. His adult children are thoughtless, and their presence is nerve-wracking. Charles is getting old at 55. Allison is disgusted with her parents, teachers at school, her supervisor at work, and has generally given up on people in authority. She is rapidly getting less splendid at age 22. People give up on the church, on the government, on the justice system, and sadly on their own ability to succeed and solve problems. May God help us to remain hopeful and spectacular.

By Mary Jackle, OSB